You appear to be processing this quite well, imo.

Continue to touch on your transference issues with "Judy." I don't think she will allow it to take over your entire session(s) but to keep it as an ongoing topic to discuss is good...even right now.

What your T has been showing you is good, safe, loving care. If you contain the feelings and not share them and subsequently work through them, you won't get through them imo... it's the discussion, bringing them to light, managing the strength of them... having both sides know they're there... and continue to see your T remain within the safe boundaries set for your relationship, that you will learn about good, safe relationships as opposed to ones from your past.

It can feel terrible ((((hugs))) but it is well worth getting through!