I'm exactly the same mate, why should you have to listen when you never share, or want to, and ironicly the majority of winging you hear is so pathetic and self-obsessed that I have had to stop myself from flipping on people, ignorant and boring is how I feel when I think about something to deep so I don't have a clue how people can ignore themselves that much. I always stop people before they start and tell them why and that it would be more rude to pretend to listen and care and lie to their face so try that, word it right though if you do as you will 100% look a **** but by how much lol.