What about my needs and feelings? He knows I struggle with loneliness and depression. He broke my heart with no good reason. He has a need for space to deal with his feelings, well, I have a need for communication. I have a need for someone who said they cared about and loved me to show some regard for my wellbeing. If I have to suffer not contacting him all the time, can't he occasionally suck up some discomfort and talk to me? That's crap that I have to respect his feelings and he doesn't have to have any respect for mine. I helped and cared for him a lot. At the very least, he should have some concern for me. I hardly see that "Have a good day" is harassment. Why is it all about him? And still, no one has said why he is behaving this way. Because he needs to heal? What does he need to heal from? He's the one that abandoned me.