Yeah my mom is like that. She has cancer right now so my younger sister, who is trying to recover from anorexia by eating when she's hungry (which is what we're supposed to do anyway) is living with her to help take care of her. And every single time she eats anything my mom is on her case about eating. Insinuating (she's passive aggressive and doesn't often come right to the point in actual words) that my sister is disgusting for "needing to eat" and that the reason all four of us kids have eating disorders is because we need to smarten up and get our **** together. Riiiiight. I grew up with that my whole life. My brother and I got it the worst. My other two sisters are exercise junkies who fluctuate between B/P and starvation, and all-out binging out of starvation. My brother is now an exercise junkie too. And my dad, who is in his 60s, is on some weird Atkins-type diet. So eating carbs around him is committing a cardinal sin. Sigh. When did everything get so messed up?