How can someone judge someone's marriage.. 10 years is a long time and you have grown together and up like the branches of a tree...twisting and turning goood days and bad. the tree always grows up. Talking to someone is not a crime .....nor is it a cheating husband. Look over your years together and remember how loving it has been how wonderful the kids are. Always remember somepeople want to cause trouble. Apparently this wasn't her first attempt at someone to vent to...... Love what you have not what you fear. Fear will eat you up .. Speculations will tear you up. Sleep with peace. Put your mind at ease...