Irrational and immature are actually descriptions... judgment would imply I have a negative opinion regarding the adjectives I used. I have none. I simply call it like I see it.

At any rate, it is clear you don't want the type of responses you've garnered by starting this thread. So I will no longer participate.

Ps. In future, please express the type of support you want, to avoid any confusion between yourself and a would be responder.
Its perfectly ok to explicitly ask for only people who agree with you to respond, or to state that you are just venting, or are only in search of cyber hugs... Its your thread afterall, so state your needs and expectations clearly.

Take care