Hi Lute20: I just want to echo what Motown Johnny wrote. Kids are resilient. They grow up in all sorts of different types of households. The important thing is that you love them & accept them unconditionally. I know it probably seems scary to think of becoming a father. But it sounds like, from what I read, it's coming ready-or-not! So try your best to relax & enjoy this time. It will go by all too quickly. You're going to do JUST FINE!

P.S. I'm in my 60's. And I still haven't figured out how to be a man!