Oh how could we feel anything but compassion, understanding, a feeling of relating to you, and love for you (safe love)... (safe huggs)....

A part of you knows (in your heart) that what your Mum did at bath time is not how a child wants/should to be treated.

The "remembering" time that you are going thru is the roughest. It makes you feel insecure, but you hang in there - you are on the right track...you "know" you are right... your confidence will build and you will "punch" thru to the other side.

((((((huggs)))) freewill (I'm here if you need me)