"We than got into boundaries when it comes to seeing someone outside of Therapy and that was where things really clashed since I became insistent on my viewpoint that meetings are flexible and there are some (very rare) instances where there are no boundaries at all (i.e. intimate type gatherings) and this did cause significant disagreements, especially when she said that if a therapist was to see a client there she is supposed to leave which I go very offended by since as most people know I think you should do the exact opposite and embrace the fact that your client is there (even though in a circumstance like that I don't believe that they are their client because the therapist-client relationship is completely put to the side), even doing a number of things together for the duration of the gathering (or even going to the gathering together in the future)."

I think you might be looking for pretty unreasonable things in terms of therapist's boundaries. You're asking them to be okay with what can quickly become an ethical gray area for them and put their licenses on the line.