I agree that in the main part of my life my Therapist doesn't really need to be part of it unless we cross places somewhere (and then the place we meet at should dictate how much we talk to one another).

I guess after the Therapist who I saw at the last practice I was at keep disagreeing with me on what appropriate boundaries are and tried to get me to see them the same way which culminated in her bringing her supervisor in and telling me that it was over with her that it got me very angry and upset and I have been trying to defend my boundaries ever since.

I want to make progress in Therapy but I am not sure if the person who I saw today is the right person for that after she told me that she has such strong boundaries.