I think a more neutral way of saying some of the more harsher worded opinions in this thread is that there is nothing good that can come from trying to continue this relationship the way you're envisioning this relationship should be continued, because for all you know: to him there may not be any sort of relationship left and he's just waiting for you to back off. From someone who came to this forum also seeking help amd answers, I've been here and I'm sorry for the pain you feel, but this may not be worth continued suffering in the long run. Hope everything goes well.