I guess boundaries help me think that I can have a good relationship and I can be a 3-dimensional human being should our paths cross. I just think that if we (as unlikely as it might be) happen to meet outside of Therapy and I can't have the contact that I want I may just decide to stop seeing her all-together which would destroy the Therapy relationship, in other words Therapists think that it is good to limit their conversations with a client should they see them outside of Therapy in order to preserve the Therapy relationship but I think that with me it is the complete opposite.