Hi, I mostly post in the depression forum, but I am struggling with another issue right now.
My 26 year old son and his girlfriend are having a baby. Potentially a good thing, right? I'm terrified.

My son is a heavy alcoholic who stopped drinking last year...with no support. He has had three bouts of pancreatitis. The last bout leaving him in the ICU for one month.

He is living with this woman and her 3 year old son. He calls me fairly regularly in tears over the pressure he's feeling.

I have gone back to Alanon in hopes of getting my head on straight with this.

Does anyone have any suggestions or advice for me?