Hi, birdpumpkin. Bills trigger me, too, and I'm to one who has to pay them. I can understand your worry about not paying on the house taxes. That would freak me out, too. Maybe your husband is trying to wait until he can pay it in full. Whatever, he is thinking needs to listen to your fears. Tell him it would make you feel better if he paid the half, because it is causing you stress at this time. And we all know stress is not good if you are dealing with mental illness, too. Try to tell him how upset it makes you and hopefully he will listen to your need to get this paid.

Good luck