I would definitely have issues hitting someone, even with a foam-wrapped bat (unless we were playing around, like with the kids, and I knew I wasn;t going to hit very hard at all, but never to try to get anger out)... maybe the chair, but never a person.

I don't think my T's have ever asked me to do anything really off-the-wall. The worst thing I was ever asked to do was participate yet again in dbt despite knowing how it has always turned out negatively for me...