Do you feel burdened if other people share things with you (especially in a relationship)? The answer to this is probably no. It's expected that you reveal things about yourself when you're close to people. But really, it's not a good idea to share that level of intimacy with someone and then they just "lose interest" for any reason. If he likes you for you, he will understand and accept your personality. If a guy isn't interested in a long term commitment with you (for me personally that means marriage) then "that" just isn't going to happen. It hurts when someone you thought was into you just seems to walk away.