So the other night my........... I guess boyfriend............. and I were talking, and he was telling me all these nice things, and then he said, "well, I guess I'll have to tell the next gf that........(nice things about me that she would have to compare to......)." I was crushed, to say the least. Why would he say something like that? We were talking about his ex's all night, he seems to reflect on them a lot. I can't reach him yet to talk about it.......not at his comp.......but I truely feel hurt. He tells me that he cares more about me than any other girl he's been with, and that I frighten him because apparently I am too perfect, his words, not mine, and that he's afraid that either something is really really wrong with me, or if we broke up, the hurt it would cause. I don't get it. If you feel this way about someone, why would you say such things? Maybe someone can shed some light on the subject. Thanks! <font color="#008800"> </font>