thanks Almeda24fan,

This is really a good book! Easy to understand and I just can't believe how much I see myself there... as a child and unfortunately as a mother also.

And blame was the game when I was growing up. It was the end of the disagreement or argument... blame was placed and then that was that.. nothing was ever resolved, just someone was blamed and then after a while, days or whatever, everyone acted as if nothing had ever happened. SOO frustrating!!