My concern is with the reasons neither families want to see the two of you get married. Sometimes one or two people are totally "off", but when it's a group of people, there's usually something wrong with the situation. When I met the man I live with every one of his friends and co-workers (I mean, every one) warned me about the guy. It was like...Yeah...he's a friend, buuuut the dude has a lot of problems....strangely, his family seemed absolutely delighted with me. To a point at which I felt uneasy.

Well, now I know what's-what: his friends and co-workers were correct...the guy has major issues. And his family was thrilled to dump him on me.

So...what do you think? Does grandma and does your family have valid reasons for not giving a marriage their blessing?