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I will never again be with a man who emotionally abuses me in this kind of way again. I believe that they know what they are doing, even if it is at a subliminal level. And I believe it is a kind of cruelty.

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I always believed it was just because I went for guys who talked too much... because they would seem SHOCKED and kind of wounded when I said I was upset. They weren't emotionally abusive guys, but I'm sure some guys do use those kinds of veiled insults to inflict emotional pain.