I'd be having as much trouble as anyone, its why I have my rules actually because of my past. I've lost jobs, alienated myself among coworkers, friends etc... BPDmuch, yes... it doesn't seem fair somehow even though their behavior is bad I end up getting the shaft. I mean... of course I am going ... is it them or is it me.

GL with this, I think you have a good plan. Hopefully they will get bored.