If all you’ve ever known in life is being rejected/left/hurt by people you got attached too (despite their promises to stick by you or never to hurt you etc.), 'tis better to run for the hills at the mere notion of forming an attachment.
Attachment would be like an invitation to repeat this pattern of rejection. It’s like you taking the risk of opening your heart up, only for them to, inevitably, plunge daggers in.
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