Dear Chippermonkey,

No one actually qualified to.diagnose someone would do it on a forum. Your experience does not make you an expert in narcissist spotting. Just like I am not an expert in paedophile spotting. Besides, we are all a bit narcissistic. And this is a forum. Assessing someone over the Internet with the limited amount of information you have would be near impossible.

Even if OP was narcissistic - that information is neither supportive nor helpful coming from someone who clearly bares a grudge against narcissistic PD. This is a support site. No matter what the ops condition, they are worthy of understanding. If you cannot see the individual behind what you think is the diagnosis, then you will not be able to help that person anyway.