Bottom line is that it is you and your partner's choice to make a mistake or have a wonderful life with someone you love. Coming to PC for understanding and advice is very smart as you make decisions. Other counseling for you both would be smart as well. If you feel that your boyfriend is not in 100% based on his OWN concerns that is a different story.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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