Me too! I'm wearing men's jockey shorts right now because I have a physiotherapy appointment this morning. But when I come home, it'll be back into panties.

I started wearing panties daily just five years ago, after I'd had a talk with a psychologist about my panty desires and other troublesome fetishes. I'd wanted to wear panties for decades, literally, and often "borrowed" my wife's panties to use as masturbation toys, although it was years after we were married that she learned about what I was doing. Her only comment then: "Please wash them before giving them back to me."

After that talk with my psychologist, I decided I had to start wearing panties routinely, and told my wife. She was fine with it, and even went shopping with me. She thinks that any woman who would jeopardize a relationship because her male partner wants to wear lingerie is just plain silly. There are more important things in life than a few square inches of nylon.

Panties are very much a part of my sexuality. I wear my best pairs (preferably nylon, black or pink, sometimes red, trimmed with lace) when my wife and I have dates. Day-to-day it's pretty ordinary cotton-lycra briefs which could almost pass for men's briefs except for a scalloped waistband with hearts and the lack of a fly.

I don't think that clothing makes the man or the woman, but clothing does express who we want to be, and if you want to be a man who wears panties then you should be a man who wears panties, at least in private and if you feel a bit braver, at school and work. I would have saved myself a lot of angst if I had decided decades earlier to wear what I wanted rather than what my society appears to want me to wear. (A point that my psychologist made is that we really don't know which men are wearing panties and which aren't.)

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