I've tried various things over the years to fit in with any of the various groups of people I've had to socialize and nothing really works. Some places I've read the best way to make friends and what not is to find out what the people your are socializing with like to do etc. my problem is that 9 tenths of the the new people I meet know people I've known for years and inevitably I get things repeated back to me what I've said, weeks, months or years ago, even though I've never met this person before. It's frustrating trying to find someone who haven't already apparently had some sort of discussion with people who know, and apparently don't like me, before I've even had a chance to try to do anything. I guess my other question is what is going on here? Should I just accept the fact that anyone new at work or that my family knows is just going to repeat what I say back to me and never really attempt to have a conversation?

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