If you are interested in doing things for her with her without the certainty of the future..do so. But if you do not feel good about it and you feel it is not a fair trade than stop - I know it's hard. She should respect your feelings as well - and quit playing with you.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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