Both my roommate and myself suffer with constant pain. Some days are better than others for me, but I think she is pretty much in bad pain every single day.

Most of the time we are pretty good in our moods, but every now and again we get cranky and pissy and just don't want to be bothered by anyone.

I think, what helps me is when I do get snarky that my roommate says something to me about it, because I really don't always realize I'm being that way.

Sometimes I will say to her that I can tell she's really suffering and that can help bring her back around as well. We both try really hard not to let our pain influence us as to how we interact with each other and the world around us.

I know for me as well, there are times when I will get very snarky about a situation on the news or in a tv show and let my attitude out in that way instead of on others. And then, there are times when I just pray to God to help me make through whatever I have to do and to do it with as good an attitude as I should have....all these things help me.

I hope you find something that helps you as well.