I know that, she has no need to be though..I reassure her constantly..she knows deep down I'll always be with her no matter how long it takes her to get well, but she sometimes thinks silly thoughts.its a massive thing for her to trust,she's never trusted anyone in her life,but she trusts me because iv always been honest to her and iv never let her down. And I never will. We had such a happy life together until her life got turned upside down.we will again when she's better & allowed to come home. if she could see that maybe she could move forward but she's stuck in the past & gone into a mental shut down..iv tried everything. The doctors have said she could come out of it in a day or in a month, no one knows..when I visit her she just holds me as tight as she can & crys her heart out..it's heartbreaking :-(