Hi Beanbag,

That post sounds like it came straight from me a while back - I was terrified and just didn't know what to say. I felt stupid.
What I found helped is I wrote it all down. Then I didn't need to worry about clamming up and freaking out because when the time came I just took in my notebook and every time she would read what I had written, then ask me questions if she wanted. I found it really helped because then I covered everything I wanted to.
Sending you hugs, J.