I'm not miserable or stupid when it comes to therapy. I won't speak for other people (and I don't think you can either) but I go to my t for help managing a mental illness. I do care about him, six years is a long time but I'm not in love with him (he's a good looking guy LOL I won't pretend I haven't noticed). I have a life and I want him to help me live it fully. I will miss him at the end but I think that's just human. Idk but maybe in some ways a t should work himself out of a job. Help you fill your bucket so he's just a drop in yours.

I talk about therapy here so I can gain insight into the different ways people interact with their t. Sometimes I want feedback. Sometimes I need support taking about something difficult.

If therapy is causing you more harm then good maybe it's time to find another t