A person can only speak for his or herself; not for other people.

I do not feel miserable or stupid about therapy. I have never fallen in love with my therapist nor do I pine away when I am not with him. I have never felt like I bother him nor do I have a broken heart about him.

What Granite was trying to say, and others, is that your experience is your own. Perhaps some here can relate and perhaps others cannot, but do try to speak in terms of your feelings and experiences being your own rather than speaking for the rest of us. That's the "I" versus "we" others have spoken about.