Zombie Paloma, do you see another person regularly, like a therapist, that you could discuss this with? I definitely understand the crazy obessesive attachement thing, and how painful it is. Does the worker or anyone else at the center know you have BPD? I think if it is possible, it is important to look beyond the person that is the worker you have attached too. I know it is hard, because when you are obsessively attached, it is difficult to see beyond the person, but I would think it is a good idea to take a look underneath this and see what is driving it. What need does this person meet for you? And in what ways can you seek to provide this in either a different way, or by yourself? The trouble with getting another person involved in meeting a need is that 1) they might not agree with helping you meet this need and might not want to and 2) they will not always be there to help with getting this need met

So I would urge you to find out what the need is, and how else you might seek to meet it. Just things I'm needing to work on also Best of luck and hugs