There could be a reason, though, that has to do with your therapist. She might not be comfortable having such a discussion. If she would be comfortable, then it would be fine to have a conversation. She might not be comfortable because of who she is as a therapist or a person. She might want her privacy when she is out in the world.

I think people are frustrated with you on this thread because you seem to not consider the perspective of your T. You can wish for another person to be flexible all you want, and I believe in the abstract there is nothing wrong with T and client socialization out there in the real world. But the bottom line is that you can only have as much contact as both people (not just you) are willing to have.