I agree , its really scary, I am 33 years old and i was with her since 18... my belief is that she is not the only one that needs to grow up ( I am the idiot that cant say NO, maybe i am too old fashioned and still believe in eternal love) ... its me as well, since i need to grow more mature as a man with no wife, my belief is that (besides the feelings i have for her, which for me, sound kind of old, in my heart she is the one and i cant bare the idea of something different) it is ME that needs to grow up as a man as well since i have zero experience of being on my own and i have a "huge sense of she cannot be with someone else".