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Old Jul 10, 2014, 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted by winter4me View Post
There are many diagnoses that include an inability to sustain relationships.
The question is really: How do you feel about this? Are you OK where you are? Do you want it to be different? Does it impact your life in negative/destructive ways? Not?
When someone is Avoidant, they often feel uncomfortable/uncertain in themselves in relation to others, and want to 'avoid' getting hurt etal.
Yes, I do wish things were different- but perhaps I just need to find the right friendships- with others like me, who understand me- I've made bad friendships in the past with users and the like, so now I have this plight as I restart my life.