Im exactly where you are at with my T. Although it is not intense love for me. At first maybe it was, but that settled and now I see him more as a security blanket. Anytime I am afraid of anything, I imagine him encouraging me, telling me its ok.

Our last session ended with him suggesting termination . I flat out said, "No" and asked him to help me get past the transference. He said he would. I am hoping he will. The question is can he?