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Old Jul 10, 2014, 10:51 PM
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She mentioned several times how much I want to be in control which is probably preventing me from having strong emotions. I think she wants to decide for me to experience not having control/trust etc. I don't think she would ever terminate early. In fact when I told her I just found out I have great insurance, she said I'm welcome to come as long as I want. I've been wanting guidance from her about how to deal with it. I also think she feels I have more to work on than I realize.
I am glad it works for you and I was not criticizing you.
I was sort of amused at myself and the extremely strong response I had to it even where it is not mine. I had to get up and walk around the house because I was getting anxious thinking about such a thing. So my reaction was strong - but I was laughing at myself at the same time.
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