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Originally Posted by _Mouse
Sorry new like your T needs to go back to T sch. By not linking the past to the present, the client misses out on gaining knowledge that will be useful for them.
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Originally Posted by Lauliza
Sorry I don't agree with this. Some Ts (including mine) don't use the term much if at all and I do believe it can be over used. I understand it has its place and can be effectively used in therapy. But it's also an easy way for a T to put anger that is legit back onto the client to avoid the possibility of having been wrong or of making an error.
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Aaa, Mouse you meant that the new T not the previous one should go back to school - sorry I misunderstood this... Thanks Lauliza for the clarification
In this case I guess I wasn't very clear. My current T of course links the past to the presence as we work on the childhood trauma it wouldn't be possible to ignore the past... But my current T doesn't use the word "transference" so often as it isn't necessarily true that if I am angry with my T, it means that I am just angry with her because 20 years ago someone did something and that's why I am angry now... It is still possible that my T could simply screw up
