Thanks everyone. I think we can make it through this. It's just going to be hard for me to get over. I just don't think it's worth throwing our marriage away. At least they never met with each other. I know he had that intent, but it never happened. Plus, he's told me he messed up and that he's so sorry. Still, the trust from me is going to come slowly. But, I believe we can work on this with counselling. We've shared alot together and we have 3 kids. I'm not just going to throw my marriage away.