hello! i have an interesting question for you all...

i suffer from bpd and i'm curious to know if bpds tend to pick partners who are not right for them?

i like a guy who i think is not right for me...am i thinking this because i have bpd or is he genuinely not good for me?

a brief background about the guy :
its a long distance, huge age difference, says he doesnt want to be emotionally involved till he can afford to come see me...we have been talking for months now...when i say i love him or miss him, he doesnt reciprocate which gets me mad...i know i shouldnt be saying that unless i have been with him in the flesh, but we have skyped and talked for months...he says he has feelings for me. But he doesn't have any problems having naughty chats with me.