I guess I would agree on both instances. Your anger at him could have noooothing to do with him at all, but you have transferred feelings from a relationship like your father and put it on him. Which, is totally plausible. In that case, it would be worth looking at.

The other side is true... You could truly be pissed of at your t and you two need to take the time to look at what it was that pissed you off and see if there are things that the both of you or he or just you need to work on. Any T is "good" would be willing to examine both situations and work through it with you.