Definately sounds like he has serious issues...my ex who is NPD was very much like that...one job after another and all populated by co-workers who were 'idiots' and bosses who were 'incompetant'. I originally thought he must be right as he seemed so smart, knowledgable. I was wrong, of course. He was horridly insecure...and a typical Narc, so he made himself feel superior by putting down anyone who didn't agree with him-- of which I became one of many, eventually. Yours may not be NPD, but it does sound more like a PD, than just laziness.

He sounds like he could benifit from some sort of therapy but whether he'd be willing to go...another story. If you intend to stay with him, you'll just have to figure a way to accept it, because it doesn't sound like he's likely to change. If you don't want to accept it, I suggest therapy for yourself, and planning a way to extricate yourself from him and your situation.

Take care

I'm so sorry! lol I tend to think everyone on this site knows...NPD stands for Narcissistic Personality Disorder. PD stands for Personality Disorder.

There are forums regarding NPD that are useful to read, but don't post there. And there is information regarding NPD also on this site..I recommend reading up, if you think it might be helpful.

In any case, take care of you, and your emotional health. He is evidently, at this time, incapable of helping you in that way.

Take care