I want this to work. I really care for him. We are similar in some habits. We like the same sorts of movies and books and we are both rather messy people and it does not seem to bother either of us and we both love pets. He drinks way too much. He does not get drunk and misbehave but he consumes alarming amounts of alcohol. He goes out to bars on average three nights a week not including any weekend drinking. One he and I decided that we were going to be exclusive and committed to each other I really feels like he goes out to bars too much. He seems to think that he and I see each other plenty and that I should have no issue with the amount of time he spends in bars.