Wow, thanks everyone for great responses.

With honesty I'm not angel either. What worries me more however she did criticize me from the day one - even at the time normal couples think about nicer stuff.

I've asked the question mainly because things between us go downhill recently (and accelerating) and I'm looking retrospectively to try to identify problems which were overlooked in the past - but now once accumulated destroying our relationship.

glok - thank you for the links