Even though I often agree with Sabau, I'm not sure college is for everyone or that it needs to be. If this is what the dh (darling husband) wants, that's one thing. If he doesn't, that's another. Long-haul truckers make good money, but my brother says work is getting scarcer as gas prices go up. The airline industry is troubled; he will have to do his research about that. Lawn care can be seasonal, unless you live in a place where the climate is clement, such as parts of California, Arizona, and south Florida.

Defining personal identity separate from our families is challenging. They seem to sit like a committee that we carry around with us, constantly second-guessing us.If you are intensely affected by your family and society's judgments, you will have to figure out how to cope with that.

Finding inner peace when we are jangled by outside views can be quite challenging. It can take time to come to peace with decisions that go against the grain.

I wish you all the best with that.

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