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Old Jul 11, 2014, 09:21 PM
beanman56 beanman56 is offline
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Originally Posted by MinnesotaComidian View Post
I have had issues in this area too, even off meds. I can get erect but out of nowhere during intercource I will become flacid. It takes a lot of consintration to even get to the point of ejaculation. It might not be the meds, I think it has to do with the racing thoughts, having a hard time staying in the moment. Does that make sense?
That makes perfect sense. I have the same problem of getting carried away by my thoughts a lot when I'm having sex. I don't know what it's all about, but it can be so distracting that my wife notices. I am so embarrassed when it happens that I try to play it off with some stupid excuse.

It's so good to hear that this happens to someone else. Not that it's good that it's happening to you, just that this may be a common experience that I don't have to be so concerned about for myself. I really appreciate you being so open since I wouldn't have known how to express it very well.