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Old Jul 11, 2014, 10:32 PM
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This is a long story but I will try and keep it short.

I have know this guy for about 5 years. We both work in the same building but not really with each other. We met through a friend before we worked together and when I first met him I was not attracted to him or interested in anyway.

So after the past year I started to have feelings for him and recently the past month or so we started seeing each other. I am growing more serious feelings for him but he has never once said that he likes me or even to say I am pretty or anything. Maybe one time he said I was cute. When we are together it is really nice and he is kind and thoughtful but I don't think he has feelings for me. I'm worried it is just about sex, but we do spend very long periods of time together… Today we spent about 14hours together.

We are both busy working overnights and going to school, so when we are together he comes to my house and we watch movies and cuddle.

Today I asked him about being on the same page.. He asked what I meant and I said that I didn't know what he wanted and that spending time together people develop feelings and that working in the same building that could make problems if we were not on the same page. His response was that he doesn't think that far ahead and just goes with the flow. I said ok and agreed thats what we would do. However, I just want to know it not just for fun. He told me when we first started seeing each other that he doesn't do casual relationships.

I just don't know what to think. Thoughts? What should I do? I don't want my heart broken but I really feel for him. I'm sure he knows I like him.
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