I'm not like... say... comfortable the same way I am in my own living room. I don't kick off my shoes or put my feet up or anything.

I also, wouldn't conspicuously bring any comfort item because I've been shamed in real life for that type of behavior.

I just bring my fleece coat, as it is frequently necessary to hide under.

Last time I forgot it and mentioned it to T. She gestured to a fleece blanket she has. NO WAY, man. No way would I accept anything like that from her. No way, no how.

She always offers a toy to play with. (I fidgit a lot.) I would never accept a toy from her. Never.