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Originally Posted by Rose3
Maybe if you could start a discussion with him about some specific things that are important to you and to him. Ask yourself - where is this relationship going? Do you want to plan things together? Do you want to live together or get married? What kinds of things do you like to do together?
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We do talk quite a bit and he has told me some very personal things. It feels good to know that he trusts me to tell me things and to know I won't judge him. As for where this relationship is going I have no idea. I guess I was hoping to get out of him that he likes me and is not just having a sexual relationship. I want to plan things with him like I would love a weekend away together.. but its too soon for that. Since we have only been seeing each other for a month I don't want to be too pushy. But I feel if he did like me he would say. Maybe he didn't understand what I was asking? I hate ruminating over it. I really don't want to bring anything up again because I don't want to smother him or push him away.